A hot topic of discussion among the kids at after school is how I could possibly have a baby and not be married. It’s totally not a judgement thing. Its a”you need sun to grow a plant and also you need to be married to have a baby” thing. It comes up a lot. We were talking about it yesterday, and I explained again that in fact, one can have a baby without being married which of course led to the question HOW?! And as I was figuring out how to answer that one, a little kindergartener yelled out, “I know! You’re a monk!” Exactly children, exactly.